Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Wholly Committed

We've been through it once already.  You would think it would be easier this time.  However, the training to become an approved foster home isn't about convenience.  Listening to all the stories and potential difficult situations we must prepare for can be alarming (even if we've heard them before).  The difference this time around has been our resolve.  Joey and I know it can and will be hard.  We know that some of our friends and our family may think we are crazy.  We know it's going to be chaotic and messy and full of interruptions and disappointment. So why are we going to do foster care?

When Faith first came to our home at the end of September 2010, she had little knowledge of what steps we had to go through to bring her home.  I'm sure someone may have explained the process to her, but seeing it from this perspective is completely different.  As Joey and I were sitting in one of our four hour training sessions last week, my sweet 18 year old daughter sent me a simple text, "Is it worth it?" 

As I look back and read where we were almost three years ago, I am amazed at God's fingerprints in our lives.  Love compels us and His power enables us.  The reason we are putting ourselves and our family through the  laborious process of becoming a foster home is simply because He asked.  Our reason three years ago still resonates deep with us today. (see below)

From August 24, 2010


Recently I was driving in my car.  I was headed home and thinking about the whole adoption process.  I'm not going to lie, it can be very frustrating.  We are constantly waiting.  Hurry up and wait, hurry up and wait.  Just when I think we are getting close to the end, the time frame stretches longer and longer.  Anyway, I was driving in my car and one of my favorite songs came on, "For the Sake of the Call" by Steven Curtis Chapman.   There is a part in the song that says,



We will abandon it all for the sake of the call
No other reason at all but the sake of the call
Wholly devoted to live and to die

Not for the sake of a creed or a cause
Not for a dream or a promise
Simply because it is Jesus who called
And if we believe we'll obey

It hit me how hard this whole journey is going to be. But we didn't do it for a dream or a promise that we would have a perfect little family. Being foster/adoptive parents, we have to abandon everything (my comfort level, my fears, my time plan, my convenience, my perception of a perfect family, even the approval of our friends and family). We abandon everything simply because he called. No other reason. If you're like me then lots of people will say, "Well, if God is calling you to do this, then I'm sure everything will be fine." I'm learning that is not true. We don't do things on the promise that situations will be easy or "fine"... we are simply doing this because he called us to. I'd like to think that we are brave for doing that. No, things will definitely be hard.  Just like the disciples faced a hard life by following Christ, our lives are changed significantly by making that same choice. Our choice will affect our close friends and our family. But like the song says,

Nobody stood and applauded them
So they knew from the start
This road would not lead to fame
All they really knew for sure
Was Jesus had called to them
He said "come follow Me" and they came
With reckless abandon, they came

Empty nets lying there at the water's edge
Told a story that few could believe
And none could explain
How some crazy fisherman agreed to go where Jesus went
With no thought to what they would gain
For Jesus had called them by name
And they answered...

We will abandon it all for the sake of the call
No other reason at all but the sake of the call
Wholly devoted to live and to die for the sake of the call
The sake of the call

Drawn like the rivers are drawn to the sea
There's no turning back, for the water cannot help but flow
Once we hear the Savior's call, we'll follow wherever He leads
Because of the love He has shown
And because He has called us to go
We will answer...

5 comments:

Mary B said...

This is a wonderful blog and something I felt led to read. Can't explain why, but your honesty has helped me. Thank you and may God bless all of you.

Anonymous said...

Awesome Blog :) Thank you for sharing :) Blessings

Unknown said...

Great post! It spoke straight to my heart this morning! I am praying over you and your family this morning. I pray that the child/children that he has chosen before the foundation of the earth, feel and know the love of Christ the moment they enter your home!

God bless you!

Trish said...

Thank you for sharing your story. Very heartwarming to know there are children who are going to be a part of your loving home/family.

CPXT said...

Love this blog! Thanks for sharing.

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